I missed the boat somehow and didn't see this post from this chick's weblog.http://jacquelinepassey.blogs.com/blog/2006/08/dating_tip_qual.html
Her post was to ask guys that didn't "have it" to stop asking her out. She feels that they should lower their standards and go for the older, fatter chicks - not "quality".
I am a very high-quality woman. I know that sounds arrogant, but let’s consider the facts:
I’m slim (whereas 62 % of American women are overweight.
I’m attractive (my new picture has been rated more attractive than 86% of the women on Hot or Not - and the women who upload their pictures are a self-selected sample that is probably already biased towards being more attractive than the general female population) I’m relatively young (whereas 82% of adult American women are over 30.
I’m intelligent (IQ tested at 145 when I was a child, which is 3 standard deviations above the mean -- higher than 99.85% of the population. Even if I’ve gotten dumber as I’ve aged I’m probably still at least a 130, which is higher than 97.5% of the population.)
I’m educated (whereas 77% of American women don't have degrees)
I have my financial shit together (no debt, perfect credit history, 6+ months living expenses saved, adequate insurance, self employed)
I have a strong libido and love having sex (my lover *never* has to beg, unless it’s for me to let him get some sleep!)
Most of my interests tend to be more popular with men than women: science fiction, libertarianism, blogging, politics, economics, guns, gambling, etc.
Here's the "jali head to head comparison to the arrogant chick".
I'm kind. (no mention of kindness in her post)
I'm honorable. (nope - nothing about honor either)
I feel pretty (my rank compared to others is unmportant - it's a self love thing) I would never consider a website like "hot or not" in determining my attractiveness. Shallow Hal and shit.
I'm intelligent enough NOT to post my I.Q. since common sense isn't part of the equation and common sense is of greater value to me than the actual I.Q. test score. (it's as high or higher than hers BTW)
My financial shit is shit but since I'm not looking for investors it doesn't matter.
I love sex - don't most women? How does that make her special?
I'm educated - so is everyone to a certain degree. If she had said that she was well educated it may have made a better inpression. There are many poorly educated people in America.
I'm slim - although what the hell that has to do with being high quality isn't explained.
My interests include reading SciFi, blogging, politics, gambling (when I'm in A.C). What exactly makes any of these interests higher quality than the interests of others?
She seems to be the type of woman who'll appear on "Elimidate" and who's shocked when she's not chosen.
I like confidence - not arrogance.
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Girl, SO well said. I'm ashamed to say she is of our gender. She isn't even that pretty. Please.
Well, the arrogant woman is quite attractive. And she does seem to have a sense a humour. But she's got adverts all over her blog.
You're a thousand times better Jali. I'm sticking with you.
Kindness.
It's posts like hers that bleed insecurity and desperation and some sort of hollowness. It's okay. She is fighting her own devils. We all have them, she is just falling into what the media is is funneling out to us without questioning it.
Kindness.
Above all things kindness is so important. To those parents who want kids with good grades in the gifted programs, or those women who get injections in their lips and foreheads, to those men who want to bury their heads in a great pair of tits no matter how silicone filled they are.... is there kindness involved in any of it?
A woman like that--the one you just posted about--she is sending out such a vile vibe. I am hoping one day she will be thankful that anyone at all would want to hit on her.
Rant...rant..rant...you got me going today.
Oh, baby. I gotz to have me somma THAT. Slim AND an IQ of 145? Where do I sign up?
Nowhere did she mention her boob size. She's obviously misguided. I hope no one but druken circus midgets hit on her from now on.
She seems to arrogant and analytical about it to really be any fun. Like that's the justification she goes over in her mind while she's alone at home.
I know plenty of well educated idiots.
I used to read replies to forums where people described their perfect mate and they would say: Owns a home, Makes XXX dollars a year, Has a nice car, etc. I was always like a good natured person that I deserve, who deserves me. No one wants to marry a rich intelligent asshole.
Great for her! However can we ask some other questions? Are you compassionate or will your children have to compete with you? Do you even desire to have children or will that destroy your perfect slim body? At any poit in your day do you think of other's first or is that below the ability of you thinking capacity? I would say to all that are interested in this chick, RUN! RUN FOREST! RUN!
I dated her...she wasn't much fun.
Oh a sweet note Jali - better today? Come on babe, inspire me!
She's a fine example of narcissistic behavior.
"Run Forest Run"...
That's some funny stuff.
I really hope she's joking because I hate her already.
She's an appearance woman...substance has no place in her "perfect woman" equation.
And I am not being catty when I say I've seen women much prettier than her...I think I used to be one.
Hot or Not just cracks my shit up. PUH-LEEZ. You have got to be kidding me. Validating herself on some stupid web shit? WTF is that?
I think Lynn hit the nail on the head with this one.
Jali, I just came over to see how you were doing in your smokelessness and saw this post. You are perfection. I think I worship you. You totally nailed that appalling idiot for all of us. I didn't check her picture, though; life is too short for creatures like her.
I sincerely hope someday she learns that kindness is far more important than tested IQ because it's within our power to control whereas God determines our genetic heritage.
Some people have calculators where their soul should be.
I think I feel a bitch-slap coming on.
I wouldn't call it arrogant, I'd jsut call it being "self-aware." Or, perhaps I'm just being bougie. Nah, I'm just a realist. :)
Jali,
So well put. I mean her comment about being over 30?? Who cares? The other comment that burned my buns ws her "overweight" comment. WHAT??? So if you have a ghetto boty (LIKE ME) I don't deserve a "quality" man? WHAT THE F**K? I know MANY a man who appreciate my GHETTO booty and tell it to my over 30 azz all the time.(Hense my new love interest who is African American.) ;o) PLEASE!!!!!
I couldn't even bring myself to post on her blog...I REFUSE to give that woman any more ammo...
The point should be is that we are all made different and should celebrate our diffrences and that is what Brings us togther...not seperate us out...
There is someone for everyone they say...I guess she will either end up a self rightous divorcee or alone! LOL ;o)
Either way I am guessint that money and lots of plastic surgery will be involved!
Since when is a rating on Hot or Not an important quality?
More importantly, why is she on Hot or Not?
Permit me to say - I shant waste my time in viewing her blog. I would think that she is doing men favors turning them away. A lover is all a woman is and has if she is not worthy of the respect due a wife.
Steph, bravo!
LOL... she is a real beaut miss Jali. I wonder what propels a person to put stuff out like that and be so smug about it. Oh well, I hope it works out for her. Who knows, it just might... whispering *but I doubt it*..
Jali, I've been forced to blogroll you after reading this post. Well said girl. I just read the first line of her post and disliked her immediately. So calculating.
She's doomed unless she can demonstrate that she has emotions like the rest of us humans.
christina,
Hopefully she'll grow out of the nonsense.
winters,
Simple words: I'm sticking with you sound soooo sexy from your lips.
lynn,
Rant on!
dd,
Drunken circus midgets. Drunken? You crack me up!
amadeo,
You're going to end up with a sweetheart - you're a good guy.
kwesi,
You know I'll be borrowing the funniest line of the day. Hilarious.
mike,
You deserve MUCH better!
fairmaiden,
Get my email? Feeling mucho better!
nolff,
Textbook case.
hcg,
The movie is "Clueless" (Har-Har-Har)
missannthrope,
She's too annoying to be funny. Whatcha mean with the "used to be" shit? You're a fly girl.
lightning,
Oh - my heart! The very hot published author picked me!
hearts,
"Some people have calculators where their soul should be."
I love this.
bbb,
I'd accept the arrogance from another bbb - not from her.
superstar,
Good for you in a new relationship - go girl with the ghetto booty!
mist,
I won't even look at the page - I don't like plastic people.
steph,
"She has her head so far up her own arse she can watch herself digest food."
I'm stealing that line!
c,
I won't be viewing her page again.
luke,
The "whispering" cracked me up!
kav,
I'm blogrolled! Thank you! I don't know how to link (long sad tale) so I can't reciprocate.
I most certainly did receive it J. You made my day yesterday. I will call you over weekend. Best, Maria
What's wrong with that woman.... She's the kinda jackass that gives the rest of us women a bad name...
Anyhow, I added you (finally) to my blog roll. Hope that's ok. :)
I had to see for myself. Jacquass is not attractive by my standards. Jali used restraint in omitting highlights such as "delusionally hopeful men," "hopeful fanboy/stalker management," and her condescending tips to men of "lesser quality" that there are plenty of fat single mothers as well as women in the developing world who would want them simply for being American.
What colossal gall. I'm near-speechless, and you know that doesn't happen often.
I hate a stuck up chick. Ain't nothing wrong with having confidence, but being arrogant and cocky can cause you to miss out on some of the pleasures and joys that life is trying to throw your way. She's going to wake up one day and wonder where her life went...being the way she is, can she truly be happy? Or does she use that attitude to mask what is really going on? You have to wonder how many 'real' friends a person like that can have.
You put it very well, much nicer than I would have been. :)
I have been lurking here for a while...hope you don't mind if I pop in from time to time.
I think she was being sarcastic?
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